Reasons for Anger:
Usually your colleagues, friends, and family might feel angry because they may feel that you’ve let them down or that you have a superiority complex that makes them feel irritated by your action. There is also the possibility that they might be jealous of you or feel that your success is unwarranted and it should have been them.
Techniques to Resolve Anger:
Whatever the reasons the key to handling their anger is maintaining your sense of humility. These people might just want to be angry because they feel that they could make you angry as well. This will give them a slight edge over you.
If you have analyzed the situation well, you should be able to handle them by telling them how much they mean to you and that you wish that you could resolve the matter amicably. If you stay calm in the sight of their anger, sooner or later they will come down to your level.
Summary- Gain a New Perspective on Anger:
Again this might be tougher than you think. But remember, becoming angry is your choice and not anyone else’s. If you maintain your inner balance effectively, you will find that you will have a calming effect on the people around you.